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Welcome to ElopeToronto.com! We conduct simple, 'civil' (non-religious, non-denominational, secular) humanist weddings. The ceremonies are similar to those conducted by a 'Justice of the Peace", or at "city hall". Mary is licensed as a Marriage Officiant by the Registrar General of Ontario, and the Ontario Humanist Society
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Wednesday

We conduct simple, meaningful, 'civil' weddings in Toronto.  These are non-religious, non-denominational,  secular humanist weddings similar to a 'city hall' wedding, or one conducted by a 'Justice of the Peace". We also provide simple legal weddings for couples planning a destination wedding. Mary is licensed as a Marriage Officiant by the Registrar General of Ontario, and the Ontario Humanist Society    SEND AN [ENQUIRY] FORM HERE

A few little Covid weddings....

Revisiting a few small 'Covid weddings' ... couples, witnesses, family and friends, in and around Toronto. 

Rosedale Parkette

High Park

Gerrard Laneway Bar

Back Porch, Roncesvalles

Oriole Park

Monday

Winter Weddings - locations, COVID, and vaccinations

As we negotiate changes in COVID regulations, we've had to adjust wedding protocols and plans.  Most Fall weddings were outdoors, and quite small - the couple, a few friends or family, and a safe place to stand and  sign documents.  That meant High Park, Riverdale Park, some Condo gardens, and a few backyards.  

Now that it's cold, there have been a few indoor weddings in apartments, (and balconies), and we've all been double-vaxxed, and had our vaccination certificates.  The last three weddings were for Doctors, Scientists and Health Professionals (oddly!) and everyone was fully vaccinated - yay!  I also did a couple of weddings at venues (Enoch Turner, La Maquette) and they had staff checking Vax IDs, and the guests were masked during the ceremony, or we held it outside.

We'll see what winter brings!  But it's so nice to be able to hold these small, intimate, *warm* weddings in cold times.   We've had a bit more 'zoom & skype' guests, but it's mostly been family and close friends gathering in someone's home  - the way weddings USED to be!   

Feel free to contact me if you want to chat about ideas - it's been fun talking to people about plans and ideas.      Cheers,  Mary


Late September elopement wedding in High Park

Fun Fall wedding in the woods in High Park

We're ALL having fun in this pix!  The couple and their 6 guests found a grove of trees in High Park and we held a wonderful short wedding in the woods at the end of September.  The weather COOPERATED (yay), and a good time was had by all.  It's important to find a little space away from people getting outdoor exercise, and dog walkers - but it's a big park! 

Signing the registry book on a bench in High Park

Phil the photographer - available for weddings big and small.

Saturday

Backyard country legal wedding and a caravan!

This was a nice summer (Covid) wedding, when I was at the cottage. Just 5 people (the couple and I and 2 witnesses).  We're all vaccinated, and we're outside. A nice neighbour in Stratford loaned us her backyard, complete with a traveler's caravan  (and she made tea for the couple and gave them a bouquet!)



Tuesday

Summer and Fall weddings in Covid Times - Toronto and Stratford

 Here we are in July, and hope everyone is well and safely vaccinated.  I've got both doses, thank goodness.  I'm still staying at the cottage in Stratford, and am not coming into Toronto much at the moment, tho we've arranged a few small weddings.  Evidently Stratford is one of the few places issuing Marriage Licenses at the moment  (!??), so some couples are zipping out here to see our pretty city, and getting married in my backyard! I live 2 blocks from the VIA station, so that's also an easy option. Theoretically, the Stratford theatre festival will also open outside in July.  We'll see!

If you're planning a summer wedding in Toronto, let me know (contact Mary at the sidebar) and I'll try to help or refer you to colleagues in the GTA.  Let's look forward to Fall with hope and health.  Mary

Monday

Postponing weddings while in Covid Lockdown

Update:

Here we are in April, with the lockdown extended til Mid May.
Old licenses appear to be good.  
But we are not advising anyone to hold a wedding right now unless it is urgent.  And then the wedding should be outside, with a minimal number of people (just witnesses), and all safety precautions.  You can always contact officiants to hold dates for you later in the spring/summer, if things improve.

As of January 18, Ontario has extended the lockdown orders.

The Province has asked that people stay home, avoid outside contact, and do everything we can to minimize the spread of the virus. They advise  people postpone their weddings until things improve.  As previously, they will extend the expiry date of licenses.

The mysteries of asymptomatic transmission, the mutation of the virus, and the strain on public health is apparent to all of us. We are all waiting for the vaccine, better contact tracing and testing.

PLEASE remember  there
is no such thing as a virtual wedding. ('zoom wedding')  Legal weddings must be conducted in a face-to-face environment with all parties, including witnesses, in the same room.  

Therefore, unless under special circumstances, we will be postponing weddings until the lockdown is lifted, more contact tracing is in place, and vaccines available.

Stay safe!  Stay home!  Happy planning!   Mary

Saturday

Covid winter weddings - small, outdoors, special

 We had a few very small, very cold, and very lovely weddings in December.

Here's a couple on their back porch, (pretty cold! the ink in our pens wasn't running very easily!)

Covid Back porch wedding, December

And this brave couple is having a 'first dance' in the park, to a cell phone tune, while their family holds sparklers.  AND it snowed JUST for the wedding.  Very cold, very pretty, very special.

Covid park wedding, December




Monday

A few quiet COVID weddings in the fall

Guidelines (which may change):  Everyone download COVID tracing app. Wedding is Outdoors, social distancing, all wear masks when signing, guests limited to witnesses & very close family. Still lovely!  (weather permitting).

Condo garden 

Here we are, midmorning, in a laneway near a downtown bar.  Lots of air circulation!  Just 2 witnesses and the super nice couple.  They're off to celebrate.

Downtown Toronto

High Park 


Friday

Ontario Extends Expiry Period of Marriage Licences

Newsroom : Ontario Extends Expiry Period of Marriage Licences:
Ontario Extends Expiry Period of Marriage Licences

Proposed change would reduce the financial burden for engaged couples July 16, 2020 2:30 P.M.Ministry of Government and Consumer Services

The Ontario government is taking steps to extend the expiry period of most marriage licences that have not been used due to the COVID-19 outbreak. This change is being made as a proposed amendment to the Marriage Act, and if passed, will help reduce the financial and administrative burden for many engaged couples.

'GETTING MARRIED DURING COVID-19

The province is proposing to extend the expiry date for most marriage licences issued between December 1, 2019, and the end of the province-wide Declaration of Emergency due to COVID-19. These licences would still be valid and could be used for up to 24 months from the end of the Declaration of Emergency. Couples with a qualifying unused marriage licence issued during this timeframe are encouraged to hold onto it. They would have up to 24 months to use it and would not need to replace their marriage licence.

If there has been a change of name or marital status, or a couple no longer has their unused licence, they would have 24 months from the end of the province-wide Declaration of Emergency to apply for a replacement licence at no provincial cost.

The replacement licence would be valid for three months from the date it was issued, so couples would only apply for a replacement within three months of their rescheduled wedding. Couples needing a replacement licence are encouraged to contact the municipality where they purchased their unused licence.

In Ontario, marriage licences are issued by municipalities and are typically valid for three months from the date issued. Couples can still get married in-person but must adhere to the current provincial restrictions on gatherings and requirements for physical distancing.

If the COVID-19 Economic Recovery Act, 2020 is passed and receives Royal Assent, marriage licences issued between December 1, 2019, and the end of the province-wide Declaration of Emergency due to COVID-19 would still be valid and could be used for up to 24 months from the end of the Declaration of Emergency.

Ontario will waive the $75 provincial fee if a couple requires a new licence because critical information on the licence purchased between December 1, 2019, and the last day of the province-wide emergency is no longer accurate or the original unused licence has been lost or destroyed.

Couples requiring a replacement licence can apply at a municipality that issues marriage licences. There would be no provincial fee for a replacement licence, but municipal fees may still apply.

Saturday

Covid-19, CoronaVirus and WEDDINGS

Please note:The earlier post below was written April 16.
UPDATE June 22>
As part of the City’s COVID-19 response, marriage licences will only be issued by appointment only. Contact marriage@toronto.ca for more information. Registry services counters at the City Clerk’s Office at City Hall and the North York, Etobicoke and Scarborough Civic Centres are closed for walk-in services. Stay up-to-date on all affected City services and when they may resume by visiting toronto.ca/covid19

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POST FROM APRIL 16.  
1) Marriage Bureaus are closed.  You cannot obtain a Marriage License at this time. The Registrar General is also closed, to register marriages.
2) Marriage licenses are good for 90 days.  We have no information on whether expired licenses may be renewed, or couples would have to apply again.
3) There is no provision in Ontario for "online weddings", weddings by Zoom or video, or proxy weddings (weddings with one partner using a stand-in).  ALL PARTIES, including 2 witnesses over 18, must be present in the same room.
As discussed in many places in this blog, a legal wedding requires a short legal spoken ceremony, not just signing of papers.
4) Therefore, it is not possible at this time to arrange a legal/civil wedding, except in very unusual circumstances, where the couple have a valid marriage license and a valid reason for an emergency wedding.  (Parties standing 6 feet apart, nobody but the couple and the 2 witnesses and the officiant present, no photographers, etc.).
4) Most officiants are very happy to chat by video or phone or email about your plans and concerns, and to help plan a wedding after sequestering is over.

STAY SAFE!  CELEBRATE SAFELY WHEN WE ARE TOGETHER AGAIN.  Mary

Sunday

How to arrange a simple legal non-religious 'civil' wedding in Toronto

We offer simple 'civil' legal wedding ceremonies:  secular, non-religious & non-denominational, (similar to a 'City Hall' or 'Justice of the Peace' wedding) including elopements, private ceremonies, legal ceremonies for destination weddings, (aka 'signings' or 'registration of a marriage') and friendly family & community-style weddings.
We make house calls! We will perform the wedding at your home, apartment or condo, in a park, hotel, restaurant, or other location of choice.

Questions big or small? Or want to see if I'm available?  SEND ME YOUR DATES IN AN [ENQUIRY FORM] and I'll write back! I will also send a sample contract and a fee scale. Fees are simple, and based on the size of the wedding, and include transportation and office fees.
See FAQ and main website for more information for both small and larger events.

Mary is licensed as a Marriage Officiant ("wedding Celebrant"_ by the Registrar General of Ontario, and the Ontario Humanist Society and has performed over 1500 civil weddings. I am currently the Secular Humanist Chaplain at the University of Toronto  
HUMANISM is an ethical philosophy of secular living, stating we all share a duty of care to each other, to lead ethical lives of compassion and respect, for other people, and the world we all share. Humanist Wedding Ceremonies are simple, meaningful, non-religious legal marriage ceremonies, which reflect your wishes, your values, and your story. We also provide ceremonies for baby-namings, memorials, and other life events. 

Friday

Legal ceremonies for destination weddings

It's that time of year!  Couples are planning 'getaway' weddings in warm places, and we provide the legal ceremonies in Canada before their 'ceremonial' weddings at the holiday destination. 
For a small legal wedding, you need a Marriage License from City Hall (good for 90 days), and 2 legal witnesses over age 18 (friends, family, neighbours, etc.), and about 15 minutes for a legal ceremony.  Then time to sign lots of papers and take a simple documentary photo (cell phone is OK).
You can save your ring exchange, vows, readings, music, family toasts and ceremonies for the destination wedding, and we will perform a very simplified legal wedding, which fulfils the government requirements.  Here's a sample text.

We can hold your legal wedding in your apartment, balcony, garden, or in a hotel, office, or even in *my* little apartment downtown.  Then the officiant completes all the paperwork for you and we send the documents off to the Registrar General in Thunder Bay for them to process the marriage - while you pack for your 'getaway' wedding.
informal legal wedding in a townhouse
Here are some world travellers who got married this winter, and are off to their family wedding in a few weeks.  We had a nice glass of champagne to celebrate.

Sunday

Down in the Distillery - hidden in plain view

We're in the park - with the lake behind us.  A lovely late summer wedding, with just family and friends. You wouldn't know there are a zillion tourists only a few blocks away.  Super lovely couple, and nice to meet all the family as well.
Distillery Area wedding

Tuesday

AGO: grey day in Grange park, and a Great wedding!

Here we are in front of the Henry Moore statue group behind the AGO in Grange Park.  There were kids and babies and skateboarders all around, but they gave us a space for a short, lovely wedding.  And the rain held off till the end!
Couple and witnesses, AGO, Grange Park
Grange Park wedding couple and Mary
Signing Register in front of Grange, AGO
nb:  The bride above is an astronomer.  Below is ANOTHER University of Toronto astronomer, and we managed to hold the wedding inside the planetarium! (the new one, in the basement of the physics building).  So, fuzzy pix, but wonderful!  But you can only do this if you are -- an astronomer!
U of T Astronomy wedding

Monday

Small brunch wedding, Arts and Letters Club

I love the Arts and Letters club on Elm Street.  We often have large weddings in the Great Hall, which (like Hart House Great Hall) is very atmospheric in a 'Harry Potter' vein.  This was a small, intimate wedding in the study, or "Lamps" room, which has Group of Seven portraits.  It was very suitable for an 'academical' couple!  Another option is the Library in the Grange at the AGO - perfect for a small wedding - with a little tea reception! 

Arts and Letters Club
Arts and Letter Club

Tuesday

Condo Party room legal wedding - simple and lovely

This delightful couple also had a destination wedding in the South.  So this was their legal wedding, held with just their family witnesses, in the Party Room of their condo.  It was a weekday event, so we had the lovely big room to ourselves - with the fire on in the background, and lots of space to take photos.  Here, we've held the brief legal ceremony, and we're just finished signing all the papers!

Party Room Condo wedding

Monday

Small family wedding at Home in Little Italy - Sunday brunch!

Home wedding
We were originally planning on Trinity Bellwoods, but the weather did not cooperate, so we had a small home wedding instead at their home near Little Italy.  Lovely and light, just the family, and then everyone went out to brunch to celebrate - and I moseyed on to ANOTHER wedding up on Bathurst, where they hosted a family brunch in the house, with uncles and aunts and cousins and all.  Lovely busy sunny family wedding day!